Aging Without Frailty – A Series (Part 3)

Welcome to Part 3 of this series on avoiding extended late life frailty.

In Part 1, we looked at frailty with the intent of establishing that it isn’t synonymous with aging and that it is not a disease but rather a condition related to disuse. I also introduced a clinical term often associated with this condition – sarcopenia – which the dictionary defines as “loss of muscle tissue as a natural part of the aging process.”

In Part 2, I took the position that debilitating loss of muscle mass as we age is a major contributor to our loss of independence but is, for most, an insidiously debilitating lifestyle choice.  And that our medical community is doing little to raise our awareness of how we can reduce the effects of sarcopenia.

What I hope to accomplish with the series is to elevate awareness and motivate and persuade readers to take a new understanding of this self-inflicted malady and make changes that will enable them to dodge some bullets later in life.

In other words, avoid the “frail trail”.

Really our choices are to confront it or let it continue to take us slowly, gradually, to an extended and miserable, costly late life – “living too short and dying too long.”

There are few givens when it comes to what happens to us in this second half/third stage of life –loss of muscle mass is one of them.  We cannot predict with certainty what other maladies may befall us in these later stages – and it’s likely some will.

But this one we can predict and proactively make some allowances for.

And we must because it is the most prevalent condition that robs us of the vitality we deserve to live an active, fulfilling late life.

We don’t need more Nobel prizes

In the words of Dr. David Katz, a physician at the Yale School of Medicine, and founder of an organization called the Academy of Lifestyle Medicine:

“We already know all that we need to know to reduce, by 80%, the five major killers in our country.  We don’t need more fancy drugs or equipment or more Nobel Prizes.  We know all we need to know today.”

 The Center for Disease Control (CDC) reminds us that four risky behaviors – lack of physical activity, poor nutrition, smoking, and excess alcohol consumption – are responsible for much of the suffering and early death related to chronic diseases.  These chronic diseases are also among the most preventable and regular physical exercise is one of the most important remedies.

The CDC also informs us that, in 2012, only 7.9 percent of those 75 or older engaged in aerobic and strength-training that met the 2008 federal physical activity guidelines for that age group. Yikes!!

By allowing our musculoskeletal resources to decline, we practically guarantee the onset of any of a number of potential calamities.

 

 

 

Here are just a few from a long list of conditions that medical professionals have observed that result from sarcopenia:

  1. Decreased strength
  2. Mobility and balance problems
  3. Falls
  4. Weak bones and fractures
  5. Weight gain/obesity
  6. Diabetes
  7. Decreased visual acuity
  8. Declining sensory perception
  9. Slowed reflexes
  10. Inability to cope with stressful conditions

Stop the death spiral

All of these contribute to the mountain of demoralizing statistics about where this is taking us in terms of living conditions and health care costs.  There are some who predict that the care of the elderly, as the ranks swell, could bankrupt our economy.

We can each do our part to stop this death spiral and take advantage of the longevity bonus that most of us will experience.

So, let’s cut through it all and get to a solution.

I’ll stand by my claim in Part 2 that sarcopenia is reversible and that the solution is:

Simple

Lift weights.  If you haven’t lifted a weight since Apollo 13, consult with your physician, start small and build up.  Learn proper techniques early to avoid injury as you proceed.

Inexpensive

Join a local gym.  If you are over 65 and have a Medicare Advantage plan, you are probably eligible for the very popular Silver Sneakers program.  I frequent a 24-hour Fitness facility six days a week under this program and don’t spend a nickel.

Immediate

With a consistent, disciplined strength training routine, you will feel and see significant results as soon as two weeks.  You’ll feel better, have more energy, sleep better and may even look better almost immediately.  It’s not about weight loss but, depending on your starting point, that may be a serendipitous result.

Drug-free

Aside from an occasional Advil early on as your muscles respond and grow from the new stress, there are no drugs needed to reverse this condition.

It really is that simple.  So why do so few of us do it?  Why is it so difficult?

The answer to that is simple also.  Attitude and habits.

The biggest battle is mental, not physical. Attacking and reversing a condition like sarcopenia requires a commitment to hard physical work.  It requires a commitment to an activity that most in the middle-age group and beyond don’t care for, think about or relate to.

This simple plan requires an attitude that accepts and understands the downside of inaction and commits to doing something about it.  But it must go beyond willpower because willpower alone doesn’t work.  We have broken New Year’s resolutions as ongoing proof of that.  Without a total commitment to reversal, this effort too will fail.

Our lives are driven by habits.  Many of the habits we’ve adopted directly contribute to the decline of our musculoskeletal resources (need I mention TV, snow blowers, electric knives, elevators, etc.?) An effective battle against sarcopenia will mean replacing some deeply entrenched lifestyle habits with habits that are, for most, uncomfortable and unfamiliar in the short term.

Notice I said replace.  We really can’t effectively change habits.   We must replace them.

My own sarcopenia battle

I think I’ve mentioned in previous articles that I’ve been a gym rat for over 30 years.  When I cold-turkeyed off of cigarettes on June 6, 1979, I took up running.  Then, in 1987, I joined a new athletic club and began a 17-year run of pickup basketball five days a week. I also began taking advantage of the weight room at the same time and thus put in place an aerobic and strength-training habit that I haven’t broken since.

Although my knees don’t permit basketball, at age 77 I still do 45 minutes of aerobic (upright bike, elliptical or treadmill) six days a week with three of those days including 30-40 minutes of weight training.

Nothing gets in the way of my dedication of 3-4% of my week to this habit.  If I can’t stay with it because of calendar issues or illness, I’m difficult to be around.

A resource to get you started

Recently I stumbled across Fred Bartlit, 87-year old attorney, West Pointer/Army Ranger, strength trainer extraordinaire.  I’ve referred to Fred’s campaign against sarcopenia in Part 1 and 2 of this series.

Time, space and your attention span prevents me from laying out a detailed sarcopenia reversal plan in a single article.  So, I’m going to leave that to Fred and his co-writers and recommend an investment in his book: “Choosing the Strong Path: Reversing the Downward Spiral of Aging”.  (Note: I have no affiliate arrangement with Fred.  He doesn’t know I exist – yet.)

Fred’s book will do two things:

  1. Provide a clear understanding of sarcopenia and its impact, physically, emotionally and financially.
  2. Provide a safe, sensible roadmap for incorporating strength-training into your life at a pace and level appropriate for your situation.

You will also find excellent resources at his website www.strongpath.com including some really outstanding brief videos demonstrating proper techniques for starting exercises.

This book and website can get you started right with a new motivational understanding of why you should be doing it.  We don’t need to be a part of the depressing statistics of what is happening to our demographic.

When we take this seriously, we can, in fact, “die young, as late as possible.”

I hope this series has been helpful.  It’s a huge topic to which one can’t do justice in 3,000 words.  Fred’s resources can.

We’d love to hear your story about your journey in this area.  Leave a comment for us below.

Aging Without Frailty – A Series (Part 2)

Avoid the “frail trail”, get on the “strong path”.

I wish I had thought of those words.  They belong to 87-year old Fred Bartlit, the West Pointer/Army Ranger/Attorney/bowl skier/strength-training gonzo I referenced in last week’s blog.  Those words are his mantra and they describe his mission. 

Not being the most creative person around, and not above abject pilfery, I’m borrowing the words and jumping on Fred’s coattails.  And, believe me, they are worthy coattails to be on because he, more than anyone I’ve run across, is doing more to call attention to the biggest threat to living a healthy, meaningful second half of life.

Chances are you haven’t heard of it.  All of us have some degree of it if we are over 30.

And we didn’t “catch it”.  It’s not an air-borne or body-fluid-transmitted affliction.  We are self-inflicted.

It’s called sarcopenia.  The dictionary defines it as a “loss of muscle tissue as a natural part of the aging process.”

It started when we were thirty or so. We didn’t really notice it because it’s stealthily insidious, creeping up on us very slowly.  We reach 50 and the drives are shorter, the handicap higher, the waistline larger.  We hit 60 and find we can’t get up easily off the floor when trying to play with our four-year-old grandchild.  At 70, the back goes out, the pickle jar lid won’t budge. Or – well, you get the point.

After 75, the loss of lean tissue increases exponentially if not remedied.

Sounds like a death spiral, doesn’t it?  It can be just that, accelerating the journey to debilitating frailty.

Perhaps it’s no surprise if you’ve never heard the word from your primary care doc.  The name, sarcopenia, didn’t even exist until invented in 1989 by Irwin Rosenberg by combining the Greek word for “flesh” (sarx) with the Greek word for “loss” (penia) to describe the loss of skeletal muscle mass and size.  The meaning wasn’t even codified into the International Classification of Diseases code until 2016 despite being a condition that has existed as long as mankind.

In fact, Mr. Bartlit, in his efforts to get the word out about sarcopenia,  found that many – maybe even most – practicing physicians are stumped by the word.  Most medical professionals simply think of it as an inevitable part of the aging process.  Staying strong and vibrant into old age is a very dissonant thought for physicians only trained to prescribe or scalpel.  Considering that 85% of physicians never take a single class in geriatrics in medical school, this perhaps isn’t so surprising.

It’s no mystery then that few are providing a remedy for this looming health crisis.

It’s a lifestyle malady

Sad to say, we are weaker by the day and we are wasting our lives away unnecessarily.

With all our striving for convenience and comfort, we’re paying a price by way of extended frailty in late life.  Our bodies are not designed for today’s lifestyle.  We are built to move.  Escaping saber-tooths or bringing down mastodons has given way to binge watching Game of Thrones.  Chasing a gazelle or forging for tubers has given way to a table at Applebees.  The heaviest thing many of us lift in a day may be the TV remote or that plate loaded with lasagna. The only time we get our heart rate above normal is running to catch the last bus/subway home or trudging upstairs to bed.

My neighbor just bought a 700 horsepower snowblower that would clear Independence Pass above Aspen in a weekend to clear his driveway of the typical 3-inch snowfalls we get here in Denver.

Consider the ridiculous concept of the Rumba.   My wife regularly clocks half of her daily 10,000 Fitbit step goal when she vacuums our unnecessarily large suburban home. (I help occasionally, honest!)

I could go on and on.

I hope we’re waking up.

I mentioned last week that one of the biggest fears we have as we age is losing our independence.  Sarcopenia is THE major contributor to loss of independence.

Think about it.  What is the ultimate loss of independence? Would you agree it’s being warehoused in an under-staffed, urine-scented nursing home?  Where dementia, drool and Depends prevail.  Where you may be one of the fortunate few who can get to mealtime without help.

What is typically the key criteria for being pushed into that environment?  It’s the loss of ability to perform basic bodily functions, due, in large part, to physical weakness – loss of muscle power.  Showering, toileting, dressing, walking – all require muscle strength and balance.

Most of us just simply let it get away from us and accept it as inevitable.

Sarcopenia is treatable – in fact, reversible.   At any age.

Fact is, sarcopenia is a choice.  Muscle loss can be reversed starting today.  No, if you are 60, don’t expect to be or look like the tattooed and tank-topped or lululemon-clad 30-somethings at the gym that work 52×7 to improve their mirror-muscles.  But you also don’t need to look like the pencil-thin, stooped, slow-gaited “geezer” or “hag” that you swore 30 years ago you would never become.

Embrace the gift of longevity

We hear a lot about how we are all living longer.  About this “gift of longevity”. Our average lifespan has nearly doubled since 1910.  Most of it is due to the profound medical advances that we’ve experienced in the last several decades.

It’s not true, however, that quality of life has kept pace.

Technology is adding years to our life.  For most of us, it isn’t adding life to our years.  Today, medical science can do a marvelous job of keeping people alive in what writer Douglas Adams called “the long, dark teatime of the soul”.   The words used by 15th century English philosopher Thomas Hobbes to describe the life of man seem appropriate to describe the life many experience in our culture in their later years: “solitary, poor, nasty, brutish. And long”.

One simply needs to look at the exploding growth of assisted living facilities and the drugs advertised to treat chronic illnesses to understand that the quality of our later years isn’t what it could be.  And that we aren’t embracing this gift of longevity.

For years now, I have publicly and openly expressed my intent to live to 100 or beyond.  I’ve shared with you that, without fail, my proclamation is met with repulsion.  The sole reason for the repulsion is both honest and ignorant.  It’s based on the fear of frailty, on the effects of sarcopenia.  It’s expressed in a void of understanding the causes and that it needn’t be.

The solution

Reversing sarcopenia is:

  • Simple
  • Very inexpensive
  • Immediate
  • Drug-free

Reversing sarcopenia requires:

  • An attitude shift
  • Habit change
  • Patience

I hope, b y this point, we’ve established the “why” of overcoming sarcopenia.  I’ll conclude the series next week by touching on the “how”.

Let me wrap this week with this quote from Fred Bartlit’s book “Choosing the Strong Path: Reversing the Downward Spiral of Aging”

“The crucial takeaway here is that for almost all of us, the last 15 to 30 years of our lives bear no resemblance to what we expected.  And, by far, the major reason for this end-of-life disappointment is our loss of strength with age.”

Stay tuned.  And leave a comment if you are on a “strong path”, what your path looks like, and what effect it has had.

Aging Without Frailty – A Series

Fred Bartlit really lit me up!!

Fred’s story showed up in a recent Sunday issue of our local newspaper.  My wife found it, brought it to me and said: “This guy is singing your song!”.

She was absolutely right.  Fred is an 86-year old West Point grad, former Army Ranger, founder and practicing attorney in a hugely successful law firm, back-bowl skier, a golfer who shoots his age in summer, and a strength-trainer extraordinaire.

All that is impressive and inspiring in its own right, but what lit me up most is Fred’s vigorous campaign against one of the most damaging myths of aging that we allow to penetrate our psyche.

That myth?  That we are all destined to get frail as we get old. To that, Fred says “horsefeathers” – or a more pejorative version of the word.  He’s chosen to walk his talk.

He’s taking his message to the masses, not only by example but by speaking out publicly and co-authoring a book “Choosing the StrongPath: Reversing the Downward Spiral of Aging”.  He’s not shy about holding our healthcare industry responsible for perpetuating the myth through their inaction and not educating patients on the ways to avoid early and long-term frailty.

Our two greatest fears

Research has shown that the two greatest fears we face as we age are:

  1. Fear of outliving our money.
  2. Fear of losing our independence

Frailty is how we lose our independence.

But what is frailty?

Six years ago, I stumbled into a book entitled “Dare to Be 100”, one of seven books written by Dr. Walter Bortz, 88-year-old retired Stanford geriatric physician and one of my heroes in this battle against the mythical stigmas of aging.  Dr. Bortz put frailty into perspective for me and helped me make some needed changes in my lifestyle.

Dr. Bortz points out that frailty has lacked a conceptual framework.  He poses interesting questions like:

  • Is frailty a disease? Is so, where do we look for it in our medical classroom or textbooks?
  • Is it a legitimate entry on a death certificate? Cause of death: he/she was frail. Not gonna happen.
  • Can we admit someone to a hospital with the diagnosis of frailty and have a prayer of insurance covering anything?
  • Is frailty aging? One would tend to think so since it shows up mostly with older people.  But, at the same time, we can identify younger people who are frail due to any number of causes.  If I put my leg in a cast for six months, it becomes frail.

So his position is that frailty is NOT synonymous with aging.  Rather, “it is the reciprocal of vitality, robustness, and healthiness.  It is a predisposition to failure.  It is a disconnectedness, a weakness, an infirmity.”  So an 86-year old Fred Bartlit can be totally unfrail while your 57-year old neighbor can be near totally frail.

More explicitly, and more profoundly, Dr. Bortz goes on to say:

“—frailty is a downward drift of matter from a more highly organized state of order, structure, and function to a state of increased disorder, instability, and susceptibility.  The cause of this total decay is the loss of contact of the system from its environment, with its ordering capacity.”

Did I lose you there?  Sorry.  He finally drops the formal classroom jargon and says bluntly: “Frailty is not aging. Frailty results from disuse – even more than it does from aging.  It is not a disease.  It is a condition.”

And it’s reversible – NO MATTER THE AGE!

Dr. Bortz helped me understand that a body, or an organ within it, reaches clinical frailty when it reaches 70% loss of functionality.  Falling below that 30% threshold is almost certain death of the organ or the body.

We have a “health space” with 70% to work with.  Graphically, it would look like the graph below.  Our mission should be to stay as high in the 70% space for as long as we can.  We have much we can do to make that happen, far much more than we are showing the drive to do in our culture.

I’ve borrowed another one of Dr. Bortz’s graphs to illustrate further how frailty works if intervention doesn’t take place.  If we just let life take its sedentary, convenience and comfort-seeking way without the intervention of proper diet and exercise, we are going to decline at a rate of about 2% /year after age 30, which is when our bodily decline begins to accelerate.  By 65 or 70, at that rate, we are in trouble.

On the other hand, if we were to “intervene” with appropriate health-inducing activities and reduced that decline rate to, say, 1% or 0.5%, perhaps that 100 year threshold I profess would easily be in reach – at least theoretically, notwithstanding the possibility of some form of disease or event that changes that decline rate.

And that’s where Fred Bartlit comes into the picture. I haven’t spoken with Fred but I think he would agree with all this.  I’ve asked for the opportunity to interview him so I can feature him in a future personal-interest article, but I suspect he is too busy to bother with that right now.  Regardless, Fred and I are very much on the same wavelength – and mission – in terms of crusading for the avoidance and/or reversal of frailty.

I have witnessed too many friends, relatives, neighbors – as I’m sure you have – who are stooped, immobile and old before their time. Some may be disease related, but most of it is due to inactivity.

There is a rampant, but undiscussed, condition with a big, scary-sounding name associated with that.  It’s called “sarcopenia”.  Fred is on a campaign against sarcopenia – as I am.  Because it doesn’t have to develop – and it is reversible.

I’m going to dedicate next week’s article to fleshing out and flushing out sarcopenia.   Because somebody needs to – our medical community isn’t.

Stayed tuned – hang with me next week.

Seriously. We need to get real about meat.

Well, Nebraska is angry.

That probably doesn’t tip your attention meter unless you are into college football and/or John Deere mega-tractors.

Seems that Nebraska has its knickers in knots over people considering as meat anything other than muscle, gristle, and fat that has been extracted above four legs.

Our recent Sunday paper Business Section gave the story front-page position complete with color photos of a “real meat” and a “fake meat” burger.

For the record, the fake-meat patty is wheat protein, coconut oil, potato protein plus other plant-based ingredients.

I hope you meat-lovers can contain the nausea

It’s easy to see why Nebraska is upset.  The state led the nation in commercial red meat production in 2017, had the most feed cows as of last year and realized $12.1 billion in “livestock and livestock product related sales” in 2016.

I’d be upset too if I saw a wheat protein/coconut oil assault coming.  It must feel like the music industry did when the I-pod emerged, or like the publishing world watching Jeff Bezos and his troops.

OK, that may be a bit of stretch.  However, I believe that the meat industry has more to fear from the growing global awareness of the health- and environment-destroying nature of their product than from fake meat.

Before you tag me as a tree-hugger/environmental whacko, please know that I have a love-hate relationship with meat.

I grew up on it. My taste buds remain captive to the taste of a burger or a brat although they pass through my gullet very rarely these days.

I knew nothing of the ill effects of a meat-based diet growing up in the ’40s and ’50s.   No one that I knew did either. In the tiny, rural, agrarian Wyoming community I grew up in (which was one-half mile from the Nebraska state line), slaughtering and butchering a cow and/or hog was an annual or semi-annual ritual for many families.

Meat and potatoes were truly the normal dinner fare.

But this was also an era when doctors were advertising the health benefits of cigarettes.

We were more than a little short on important biological data back then.

If you’ve hung with me through my many rants over the last year or so, you know that, at 73, a routine heart scan (my first ever) revealed significant artery blockage, putting me, at least on paper, in the high-risk category for cardiovascular disease.

My 50+ years of meat and dairy consumption carried a price – it had clogged my pipes.  Just as it does for most of us.

Heart disease remains our biggest killer, and a meat- and dairy-based diet plays a big role in that.

Fortunately, subsequent echo and treadmill stress tests indicate that my blockage is distributed and blood flow is near normal.  So I proceed with my six-times-a-week aerobic and three-times-a-week weight lifting routine as if nothing is wrong.

So far, so good.

And I’ve become a “flexitarian”, meaning I’m mostly a vegetarian with an occasional blunder into a burger or brat.  I’m pleased to say that I haven’t set foot in a fast-food joint or received a meal through the side-window of my car in three years.

Meat deserves a double rap

Helping us die early isn’t the only rap on meat.  There’s another, even bigger, issue with meat.

It’s killing our planet.

The Lancet, one of the world’s oldest, most prestigious, and best known peer-reviewed general medical journals, published the following on 11/24/18:

 “The emotionally charged debate over the ethical suitability of meat consumption may never reach a conclusion, but it is only comparatively recently that the climate impact of livestock rearing and the nutritional and health issues caused by meat have become a pressing concern.

 The global ecological sustainability of farming habits has not been a major topic of conversation until the last few decades. It’s only now that we’re beginning to have a conversation about the role of meat in both of these debates, and the evidence suggests a reckoning with our habits is long overdue.

Meat production doesn’t just affect the ecosystem by production of gases, and studies now question the system of production’s direct effect on global freshwater use, change in land use, and ocean acidification. A recent paper in Science claims that even the lowest-impact meat causes “much more” environmental impact than the least sustainable forms of plant and vegetable production.”

Hey, I know that’s a mouthful. But then these are serious considerations. Since my heartscan scare, I’ve become a bit of a student of the role of meat in our overall health.  In that discovery process, I was shocked to learn of the depths of the ecological impact of the livestock industry.  It’s pretty shocking – both in magnitude and how little is ever said about it.

The negative impact on our health is a given and well-publicized so no need to go there.  But I want to share some snippets of what I’ve read and learned about the silent side of the destructive power of the livestock industry.

Here are a few eye-openers to consider:

  • Global meat production has quadrupled over the last 50 years. We’ve transported our western diet of burgers and steaks to the likes of China where per capita meat consumption has increased six-fold since 1965
  • The calories lost by feeding cereals (not their natural food) to animals instead of using them directly as human food could feed an extra 3.5 billion people. It takes 7 kilos of grain to produce one kilo of beef.
  • Pasture and arable land dedicated to the production of feed represent almost 80% of the total agricultural land. One-third of global arable land is used to grow feed, while 26% of the Earth’s ice-free terrestrial surface is used for grazing.
  • U.S. corn eaten by people: 2%; U.S. corn eaten by cattle: 70%. (NOTE: cows are ruminants, designed to eat grass.  Corn is not a natural food for cattle).
  • Over 75% of pharmaceuticals used in the U.S. are used on livestock, primarily to keep them alive long enough on an unnatural diet to get to slaughter weight.
  • U.S. farmland producing vegetables: 4 million acres; U.S. farmland producing hay for livestock: 56 million acres.
  • As we face major global overfishing, half of the world’s fish catch is fed to livestock.
  • Considering that water may become the next “oil”, swim in these staggering numbers, courtesy of a study by Soil and Water Specialists at the Unversity of California Agricultural Extension. Water required to produce:
    • 1 pound of lettuce:              23 gallons
    • 1 pound of tomatoes:         23 gallons
    • 1 pound of potatoes:          24 gallons
    • 1 pound of wheat:               25 gallons
    • 1 pound of carrots:             33 gallons
    • 1 pound of apples:              49 gallons
    • 1 pound of chicken:           815 gallons
    • 1 pound of pork:             1,630 gallons
    • 1 pound of beef:              5,214 gallons

If you are a Californian, you can save more water by not eating a pound of beef than you can by not showering for six months.  Do both, and you fully qualify as a whacko.

Well, I’ve stepped on the toes of a lot of hard-working farm folks – people that made up my heritage.  Sorry, but at some point, don’t we need to get real?  Our planet can’t continue to sustain this type of imbalance.

That’s the intent of this article/rant.  This information is never going to be revealed by the powerful livestock industry.  Do me a favor and share some or all – and maybe start reconsidering what ends up on your dinner plate.

For your health’s sake – and for my grandchildren’s planet.

 

Think About It – You Can Slow or Accelerate Your Aging!

Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay

Your telomeres are listening to you!!  And they may not like what they are hearing.

OK, buffo – what’s a telomere?

Think of that little plastic wrap at the end of a shoelace that keeps it from fraying.  You do wear laced shoes occasionally, don’t you?  Or have recently enough to remember that little essential component, right?

Now transfer that visual to a chromosome which is in your DNA which is in your cells which are in your body to the tune of  35 trillion, give or take a few trillion.

Got the visual?  OK – that little shoelacey-type thingy at the end of your chromosomes is a “noncoding DNA”.  What does that mean?

I have NO idea.

Let’s just go with telomeres and call it good.  The length of those telomeres at the end of each of your chromosomes is important.  When they get real short, that cell in which they reside checks out and stops dividing.  That’s called cell senescence – as in, DEAD!

So if we were able to keep those shoe-lacey-type thingies long, our cells would stay alive and, if I understand basic biology, that means our bodies would stay alive longer.

Some really smart people tell us that this works because telomeres keep the genetic material in the cell from unraveling.  Unraveling genetics does sound like something to avoid if we have the option.

Apparently, we do have some options to prevent it from happening, at least according to two of those aforementioned “smart people” – researchers Elizabeth Blackburn and Elissa Epel.

I did learn about telomeres because I read Mses. Blackburn’s and Epel’s book last year –  The Telomere Effect: A Revolutionary Approach to Living Younger, Healthier, Longer.

I believe their book was (maybe still is) considered a breakthrough publication on the topic.  If you need to go deep on the topic, slog through it.  And believe me, it’s a slog.  I read a lot of heavy stuff and this one nearly got sent to used-book heaven unfinished because of the academic- and researchese-writing style.  It’s a good substitute for a melatonin fix should you need one.

But I digress.

A good friend forwarded me this article, which is excerpted from that book: “Could your thoughts make you age faster?”  I think it pretty much says in 1686 words what it took the authors 383 pages to say in their book about what you need to know about telomeres and your role in their length.

This excerpted message cuts to the chase:  your thoughts and lifestyle decision shorten or lengthen your telomeres.

Mses. Blackburn and Epel put it this way (bolding is mine):

“The foods you eat, your response to challenges, the amount of exercise you get, and many other factors appear to influence your telomeres and can prevent premature aging at the cellular level. One of the keys to enjoying good health is simply doing your part to foster healthy cell renewal.  People who score high on measures of cynical hostility have shorter telomeres.  People who score high on measures of cynical hostility tend to get more cardiovascular disease, metabolic disease and often die at younger ages.”

OMG, yet another part of our body that doesn’t like bad food, laziness and “stinkin’ thinkin”.

We’ve known for like forever that stress-released hormones like cortisol and adrenaline are devastating over the long haul.  In fact, Mayo Clinic weighs in with this from one of their website articles:

The long-term activation of the stress-response system — and the subsequent overexposure to cortisol and other stress hormones — can disrupt almost all your body’s processes. This puts you at increased risk of numerous health problems, including:

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Digestive problems
  • Headaches
  • Heart disease
  • Sleep problems
  • Weight gain
  • Memory and concentration impairment

The more we poke around and digitally-dissect this transport system we walk around in, the more we seem to end up coming back to the same conclusion.

We are what we think, eat and do – all elements we can control.

Sounds simple enough, doesn’t it?  Get these under control and live forever.

Well, for whatever the reasons (which are legion), we’re not very good at it even though the solution isn’t all that complicated (not to be confused with easy).

The late Dr. Harry Lodge, co-author of the life-transforming book, “Younger Next Year” put the solution simply with his “Harry’s Rules”

  1. Exercise six days a week for the rest of your life
  2. Do serious aerobic exercise four days a week for the rest of your life.
  3. Do serious strength training, with weights, two days a week for the rest of your life.
  4. Spend less than you make. (Stress relief)
  5. Quit eating crap!!
  6. Care (Stress relief)
  7. Connect and commit (Stress relief)

Why can’t we do this – and “die young, as late as possible” – like maybe around 100 or more?

Need a reminder to do the right thing?

That thingy at the end of the shoelace is called an aglet.  Buy a bunch of shoelaces, paint the aglets red and hang them throughout the house/office/car, especially in the vicinity of the lazy boy and the fridge.  And maybe one in your pocket at all times to pull out when the resistance takes your thoughts into the toilet.

Your aglets won’t get shorter, but just maybe your telomeres won’t either – because, remember, they are watching and listening to you.

Are Your Genetics Trapping Your Mindset?

Me:  So, John – how long do you expect to live?

John:  Well, I’ve never been asked that question.  Probably mid-eighties.

Me:  John, you’re 72 and healthy – why the mid-eighties?

John:  Oh, genetics, I suppose.  My dad died at 63.  My mom was in her late eighties.

Me:  Suppose I told you that we’ve determined that genetics may play, at most, a 30% role in our longevity and virtually no affect after age 65 – would that influence how you began to feel about how long you will live?

John:  Well, maybe – I’ve never heard that.  I’ve always assumed genetics determined how long I would live.

Thus went a portion of a multi-faceted, catch-up discussion over lunch this week with a friend of mine – a fellow executive recruiter with whom I’ve shared some of my passions for living healthy, not retiring, staying productive.

John’s a guy that subscribes to all of that, so we’ve hit it off well in the several years we’ve known each other.  He’s an energetic, engaging, fun guy to be around. He continues to maintain a successful IT recruiting business, started at “mid-life” 22 years ago after an extended stint in big-company CIO roles.

He has no intention of retiring.

His rationale is pretty simple:

  1. He still enjoys recruiting, although it’s gotten a lot tougher with the advent of the internet and the fact that a number of his key client contacts have retired or died early. He admits to some complacency and the need to resurrect some of the old success habits that got him where he is.
  2. He would go stir-crazy if he retired. John is an extrovert that is empowered by being around people.  He told me he can’t sit still for more than a couple of hours before he has to talk to somebody, live or on the phone. (NOTE:  that has a lot to do with his consistent success as a recruiter.  Mildly demented total introverts, like me, don’t show up in the stats of highly successful recruiters).
  3. The money is still good in recruiting and he’s good at it. Why quit?  What would I retire to, he asks?
  4. He’s in a business that is largely age insensitive. You find a needy client the problem-solving candidate they need, they could give a rip if you are 12 or 92.
  5. He has the lifestyle he wants: good income, industry reputation, total control of his calendar; a “significant other” that he enjoys spending time with (he’s divorced 20+ years with no intent to re-marry); large but dwindling circle of close friends that he consistently spends time with (maybe a few early deaths amongst friends has influenced his perspective on his own length of life – I didn’t probe that.)

Summary:  FREEDOM!

John’s a healthy guy.  He eats right – lots of fish, no meat.  He is slender. He does a little bit of strength training (not enough, I told him.)  He is a gonzo road biker, doing long rides multiple times per week with friends.

I chuckled as he complained that his average mph has dropped in the last ten years from 17 mph to 13mph on the extended road trips.  In the same breath, he proudly states that he hasn’t found many 40-year olds that can keep up with him even today.

Why check out early?

Given all this about John, I was a bit surprised to have him set such a limited time horizon for himself.  It seemed out of sync with the rest of John’s thinking and lifestyle.   That is until I realized that, like so many other 20th- century myths that we have brought forward, he was coming from the outdated assumption that genetics drives our longevity.  He was surprised to hear that this isn’t the case and that our longevity is largely driven by the lifestyle choices we have made and will continue to make.

I think – I hope – I sensed a bit of awakening on his part to the possibility that a mid-eighties demise is accepting an unnecessary shortfall.  He is certainly doing the things that would say that maintaining his current level of energy, drive, and vitality at the age he expected to die is a very real possibility.

When we injected the theory of “self-fulfilling prophecy” into the discussion I believe some new lights came on.

I reminded him of my own personal longevity goal of 112 ½ and how setting a WIG (wildly improbable goal) like that has changed my perspective on what I want to do in this third act and my optimism about being able to do it.

Like all others I share this goal with, he thinks that kind of threshold is a bit nutty.  But I’m predicting that when he hits 85 and he’s still kicking it – be it recruiting, biking, or whatever – he will have a different viewpoint.

John does, and will continue to, qualify as an audacious ager.”  I love meeting and learning from audacious agers.  If you know of others like John that I could talk with, please send them along.

 

Why Do We Insist on Dying Early?

Maybe you saw the November 30, 2019 Associated Press article in your local paper entitled: “CDC: Life expectancy in U.S. declining.”

I found it buried on page 15A in the birdcage-bottom-quality newspaper we have here in Denver.  No space for this newsflash in the front portion of our paper.  More of the attention there was dedicated to the announcement of the city council’s pending approval of a “supervised drug-use site” where addicts can come to get clean needles and shoot-up under the watchful eye of a “public servant.”

Go figure.

For the third year in a row, our life expectancy has been trending the wrong direction.  After a century of near-meteoric growth (47 in 1910; 78 in 2015), we’ve found a number of ways to turn it in the other direction.

“We’ve never seen anything like this” says the overseer of the CDC death statistics.  Cancer was the only one of the top ten killers that receded in 2017, albeit only slightly.   Seven of the ten increased.  The biggie, heart disease, has stopped falling; the other biggies, suicide, stroke, diabetes, Alzheimer’s,  continue to climb.

I find it interesting that CDC officials wouldn’t speculate about what’s behind the declining life expectancy – and then, in the next breath, hint that a “sense of hopelessness” may have something to do with it, further suggesting that “financial struggles, widening income gap, and divisive politics” are contributing, concluding that therein lies the hopelessness, which therein leads to increased drug, which therein may explain much of this pull-back.

Drug deaths, while certainly a concern, still haven’t cracked the list of top ten killers in the U.S.

The food industry gets another pass

Burger King and Carl’s Junior never got a pixel of ink in the article!  Nor did Coke or Mountain Dew. The meat industry gets yet another pass from the CDC. 

Now it’s Trump-era politics and class identity instead of sugar, fat and salt that are bending the longevity curve? 

Color me skeptical.

Let’s not hang curve-bending clogged arteries and visceral fat on putrid Potomac politics.

This same CDC seems to have a short-term memory.  In 2017, the organization revealed research that suggests 1 of 3 adults in the U.S. has prediabetes and, of this group, 9 of 10 don’t know they have it.  

I’m no medical expert, but I’m confident saying that divisive politics or financial struggles are not likely to appear on the list of things that causes prediabetes, cancer or heart disease.

Oh, I hear your counter argument:  it’s the worrying related to those types of issues that is bumping up the cortisol and adrenaline thus contributing to these diseases. 

Maybe so.

Permit me to provide a very quick, effective tutorial on preventing worry.

DON’T!!  There you have it – probono.  You’re welcome.

It’s the most egregious use of imagination imaginable – and 95% of our worries never materialize.

Maybe someday we’ll get real.

With all the hysteria and new attention, it’s not likely drug deaths will crack the top-ten list of killers.  All current ten killers are considered preventable, some to greater degrees than others.  We’ve known for decades what we need to do to prevent these killers but we persist in killing ourselves slowly by ignoring the fundamentals of how our cells work.

The universe has established a lifespan benchmark of 122 ½years (reference Ms. Jeanne Calment) and we did a marvelous job of creeping toward that in the 20th century.  But with the low-hanging fruit already picked i.e. infant mortality, elimination/reduction of infectious diseases, washing hands before surgery, etc. , we seem to have become Sisyphean and lost the enthusiasm about continuing to push the longevity boulder up the hill.

We still only achieve about 66% of that full-life potential, even though we know what it takes to realize more of it.  

We’ve become complacent in understanding our biology;  we’ve allowed a deceptive food-industry to take our taste buds captive;  we cling to the 20th century model of labor-to-leisure retirement and become  sedentary and disconnected, thus contributing to a persistent “live short, die long” life curve of gradual and extended frailty.

The solution is a pretty simple plan, really.

  • Stop eating crap – cook at home, leave the meat on the cow and pig.
  • Get off your arse and your heart rate up at least three days a week, preferably five.
  • Go lift a few weights a couple of days a week.
  • Rebuild a “friends list” and do something with it – like connect.
  • Burn/Goodwill the Lazyboy and take the batteries out of the remote.
  • Don’t stop working – find a “third age” sense of purpose.
  • Never stop learning.  Become part of the 5% of our population that reads 95% of the books.
  • Spend a little time learning how your body works at the cellular level – it’ll help motivate you to follow through on the above.

Dan Sullivan of Strategic Coach says that people die early for three reasons:

  1. No money
  2. No friends
  3. No purpose

Hard to argue.  A sense of purpose is a principal driver that can help us turn the curve back up.  Plus it will render you immune to Trumpian-politics, CNN/Fox, stock market swings and Facebook narcissism.

What can be bad about that?

A Berry Important but Nutty Solution to Cognitive Decline

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I just finished another boring breakfast – the same one I have 7 out of 7 days:  oatmeal or bran flakes over a bed of strawberries. sliced banana, and almond milk with a side order of whole-grain toast with a thin layer of organic peanut butter and a touch of honey.   Then a mixed handful of dry-roasted almonds and raw walnuts.

Throughout the day, I make frequent visits to the fridge (my incentive to get out of my chair more frequently) and snack on a few grapes or blueberries.

I’m pleased to report that this week I didn’t put my car keys in the refrigerator, I didn’t end up at Target when I was headed to 24-Hour Fitness, didn’t mark the wrong ball on the putting green – and my socks matched all week.

I think I’m doing pretty well for a near-octogenarian in the brain department – so far.  Oh, there are still words or names that get stuck somewhere between the neocortex and my tongue, but that’s pretty normal I’m told.

Is my seemingly-normal septuagenaric brain due to my nutty, fruity breakfast routine?  Obviously, it’s much bigger than just that.

I don’t have any Alzheimer’s history in my family so apparently, the APOE4 gene isn’t present.

I’ve been an avid exerciser for 40+ years – gotta believe that may be helping.

And I suppose reading a book a week for the last 10+ years, trying to write something new every day and continuing to add a new level to my guitar-playing every week may help me keep the neural connections somewhat normal.

But evidence would say that being berry nutty on a daily basis certainly isn’t hurting.

In my April 30, 2018 blog, I confessed to being a fan of Dr. Michael Greger, practicing physician and prolific blogger/podcaster on issues of nutrition and good health at www.nutritionfacts.org.

Dr. Greger continues to release near-daily content with provocative research-backed findings on nutritional paths to greater health and longevity.

To add support to my berry nutty routine, I’ll refer you to Dr. Greger’s article on this very topic.  Click here to view. It’s his latest four-minute video regarding the benefits of berries and nuts for maintaining and improving cognition as we age.

Maybe just one little step to help keep that 2 1/2 lbs of fatty acid from getting old before its time.

Enjoy!

Confessions of An Addict

I’m an addict!

No, you won’t find needle marks on my arms or between my toes.  I haven’t joined the opioid crowd. I had my single, daily beer today – that was it.  My computers are free of porn sites.  And I haven’t spun a roulette wheel or said “hit me” at a blackjack table in 20 years.  And I’ve never bought a lottery ticket.

My addiction would be viewed by most as hardly an addiction, or as something harmful.  But I assure you, viewing it from this side, it is, without question, a harmful addiction with its own unique destructive power.

Like all addictions, it started slowly and has continued to layer on over the last 30 years.  Not unlike how other addictions get started.

As with other addictions, mine is also difficult to reverse or shed.  And like recovery from other addictions, the other side is bright and promising.

What is the addiction?

I’m addicted to learning!

I hear your eyebrows raising.  Whaaa?

Perhaps a better way to describe my addiction is “information accumulation.” And its start was innocent enough.  It came with exposure to the world of “positive thinking”, “self-help”, and “personal development” in the early 1980’s through books and audio programs by Robert Schuler, Dale Carnegie, Brian Tracy, Denis Waitley, Norman Vincent Peale, Earl Nightingale, Napoleon Hill, Tom Hopkins, to name but a few.

What started as reading maybe a book in a month has grown to a book a week or more to where I’ve averaged over 70 books a year for the last 6 years.  And not a novel in that mix.

Hey, I get it if you don’t relate to this.  I’m a rather unproud outlier in this area.

The addiction deepened and took on a new dimension with the advent of the internet and browsers (1990’s)  to the point today where my high-speed access, Evernote, Feedly, Medium.org,  blog subscriptions and alerts galore have enabled the learning and accumulation addiction to reach the point of total overwhelm.

Is there a 12-step program for this?  Perhaps an “Accumulation Anonymous” chapter somewhere?  If you know of one, write me.  I need one, fast!

So why the need for a detox?

Blame Tim Ferris, author of “Four-hour Work Week”.  OK, I confess – my addiction has caused me to read this book four times.   That’s nuts, relatively speaking.  I get it.

The reason I keep going back to Ferris’ book, and others, is I am caught in a destructive mindset that says the “answer” to my inaction and procrastination lies in the next book, or blog, or podcast, or whatever escape mechanism chooses to raise its head.  I subconsciously am hoping for the emergence of a magic bullet from the next element I dive into to move me to action.

Chapter 5 of Ferris’ book is unkind – in a positive way.  It’s confrontational – in a transformational way.  His transformational unkindness reminds me that I’m caught in a trap of inventing things to do to avoid the important. That’s what my accumulation has become.

I’ve come to realize that all the motivation, self-help material that I’ve consumed has been incredibly helpful and moved me out of my comfort zone and helped me grow.  But I’ve reached the point that I am now in the rut of consuming without changing, consuming without creating at an acceptable level and, most concerning, consuming without being conscious of, or remembering, what I’ve learned.

So, lacking an appropriate AA chapter for this, I’m putting myself into a self-designed rehab.

Here’s a glimpse of what I’m dealing with in this addiction and what I have to overcome.  Maybe some of you out there can relate, although I fear I’m part of a small crowd.

  1. I have read approximately 650 books over the last 10 years – one a week or more. It’s going to be difficult to avoid putting my nose into a book for a couple of hours in the morning.  But it’s gotta happen!
  2. There have been less than five novels in that mix. My reading and study have been very horizontal – self-development, positive psychology, health-and-wellness, nutrition, brain health, advances in bio-science, career planning, the changing retirement world – I’ll stop there although there are other topics. Boring stuff for the well-adjusted homo-sapien.
  3. I have 938 podcasts on my 10-year old Apple Classic I-pod. Embarrassingly, I’ve listened to a very large percentage of these (mostly as I work out – it’s the only way I can avoid terminal boredom with my workout routine). Perhaps it’s divine providence and a hint that rehab is necessary that this Apple relic finally gave it up and took this portable audio library with it.   A good omen!
  4. At any given point in time, I have 12-15 blogs/newsletters cluttering my email inbox, having succumbed to an offer for a free something-or-other and offering up my email address in exchange. I delete one and another one sneaks in to replace it.  The temptation to read something with each newsletter arrival has been doggedly persistent.  Equivalent, I suppose, to a quick fix. Rehab calls for finding more “unsubscribe” links.
  5. I currently have three on-line courses I’ve invested in that are in various stages of completion – one on health and wellness coaching, one on writing and self-publishing, and one on successful blogging. I forget what I learned in each one when I return to it.  Yuck!

I’m not expecting cold-sweats nor do I think I need a weekly support-group meeting to pull this off.  But it won’t be easy.

Some would say I’m trying to replace good habits.  No.  I’m going to replace an excess of good habits.  Reading, study, learning, research, stretching your mind are good – and important.  Until they aren’t.  I’ve reached that point.  Because they have gotten in the way of – as Seth Godin puts it – shipping.  Shipping to Godin – a word class “shipper” – is action, producing something.

My excess of habits has aligned itself with lizard-brain “resistance” to effectively infuse my day with procrastination and comfort level.  Not a great formula for shipping or doing something with meaning and impact, which is what my written life-goals remind me daily that I’m supposed to be doing – only to be stuffed down by my lizard brain.

Well, the “universe” spoke loud and clear these last ten days by serving up – ironically – three blog posts back-to-back-to-back on this very topic, all from different writers and sources. I’ve learned to pay attention to the universe when things like that happen.

Combined, the three blogs have motivated me to begin development of my own “12-Step and AA (Accumulation Anonymous)” program.  Here are the first six steps.  I’d have more completed but I’ve got this book and course I need to finish (yes, the withdrawal will be difficult and take a while).

  1. Step #1: Read fewer fluffy, front-loaded motivational self-help books.  After 30 years of these, I’m good with the basics.  The foundation is in place.
  2. Step #2: Read less each day (see #3); write more.
  3. Step #3: More nuanced reading; go deeper with my learning and more vertical, less horizontal with the topics.
  4. Step #4: Stop plowing through books that aren’t reaching me.  If it ain’t resonating, quit and put or give it away -don’t get hung up on the “sunk cost” of having paid for the book.  Come back to it only if, later on, it fits the “nuanced, vertical” category.
  5. Step #5: Take advantage of the positive impact of “spaced repetition” and “interleaving” on long-term memory and strong neural connections by having several books going at one time on different topics/problems and in different formats i.e. physical, Kindle and audio.
  6. Step #6: Get skilled at avoiding long books built around simple ideas.  Example:  many self-help books.  Study table of contents on Amazon before any buy.

The remaining six steps require some more time and thinking.  More to follow.

Maybe my travails will be helpful although I totally understand if this seems trivial and totally unrelatable.  I classify my issues as a “high-class problem”.  I could be sitting here lamenting my decline into dementia regretting having never read a book since high school or college graduation, which is the case for 38% and 42% or our population respectively. But it feels good to know I’m in the 5% of our population that reads 95% of the books.

Notwithstanding the whining I’ve foisted on you above, it also feels good to know that this mushy 2 ½ lbs of fatty acid between my ears is not going to be a victim of “use it or lose it” syndrome.

Any thoughts?  Or comments?  Let me know below in the comment section.

Stop the Careening Age Bus

 

Here’s some fun information to chew on – instead of that Halloween candy or Wendy’s  S’Awesome Bacon Classic Double.

According to fitness experts Steve and Becky Holman at Old School New Body, our body starts aging faster than normal when we hit 40.  Now, for most of you reading this, that isn’t exactly revelatory since we creak and groan our way out of our bedrooms each morning and likely have for some time.

What is a bit revelatory is that, without proper nutrients and exercise, our bodies – men and women alike – will age about 6 months EXTRA for every year that passes.

So if you’re 40 and LazyBoy, Law and Order reruns, and Carl’s Jr are your best friends, that means when you hit 44, you’ll likely look and feel 48 (or older if Carl’s is a frequent stop).

Then by the time you hit 60, you might look and feel 70, look and feel 85 at 70, so on and so on.

I don’t know about you, but I know a lot of folks that have done a lot to confirm these findings.

I’m pleased to say, however, that I know a few that seemed to have reversed that.  My wife, Linda, 72, would be one of those.   I like to think I would be one also – but to claim that would unleash my narcissistic, arrogant tendencies which are already overworked.

Wait a minute.  Screw worrying about the narcissism and arrogance – I AM ONE!

I’d better be. I’ve been studying this stuff, preaching/teaching it anywhere/ any way I can and trying to live it for the last 15+ years.

But back to my wife. She has been a wonderful nutrition gatekeeper for years.  It all started a couple of decades ago when she joined Weightwatchers and began to understand more about nutrition values and calorie counts.  She dropped 30 pounds, moved on from Weight Watcher but kept the nutritional awareness.

Our refrigerator and pantry began to transform and has steadily gotten better as we have both become students of good nutrition and learned more about how to avoid all the bad options available to us – which, by the way, overwhelm the good options available within our industrial, corporate-driven food system.

She was a gonzo Jazzerciser for years and now continues to keep pace with youngers in each Zumba class she attends, which is 4-6 days a week.  And our diet has gradually migrated to where we are 90% plant-based.

Food Rules

We consider ourselves “flexitarians”, a term borrowed from Michael Pollan, renowned author, journalist and food activist and author of a wonderful guidebook on eating right, “Food Rules: An Eater’s Manual”.

Meat is a rare event, chicken and fish are occasional.  Dairy for me – gone.

And that same gatekeeper has discovered plant-based meals that are even tastier than the traditional meat- and chicken-based meals that were standard fare for us for years.  Amazing what can be done with different combinations of vegetables and healthy spices.

I’ve taken the advice I learned years ago from Dr. Henry Lodge, co-author of the best-selling and highly transformational book “Younger Next Year”.  (See “Harry’s Rule” in the Appendix of that book.)  In addition to having “stopped eating crap”, most weeks I hit my target of 45 minutes of aerobic exercise six days with three of those days adding an additional 30+ minutes of aggressive strength training.

By the way, the math on that is 3.5% of my 168 hour week.  I think any of us can find 3.5% in our week to look better and live longer.  That is if it’s important. But Western lifestyle stats would say it’s a lot tougher than I realize and maybe not that important relative to – well, who knows what.  Maybe we can hang the blame on Netflix or Hulu.

I’m grateful today that 30 years ago, I stopped letting anything crowd out exercise on my calendar. You don’t want to be around me if I can’t exercise due to injury or illness.  It’s best to lock me in a closet when that happens.  I’m sour enough on a good day.

I guess if we get honest and just boil it down, the outside reflects what we do to the inside. I’ve come to appreciate that our bodies are essentially 24 x 7 immune systems of cells that, for us Westerners on the Standard American Diet (SAD) and living our sedentary lifestyle, are often working overtime to keep us healthy despite our naïve efforts to make it difficult for them.

Those cells actually crave frequent positive stress and thrive in it.  Not the adrenaline or cortisol or norepinephrine morning-commute, late-for-a-meeting type of stress but the type of stress that raises the oxygen levels in the bloodstream.  Dr. Lodge, in the aforementioned book Y-N-Y will provide you with an understandable description of the biology of all that,

Let’s just call it exercise to keep it dirt simple.

After a while, without proper diet and adequate exercise, cells just sort of give it up and check out early and the internal and external deterioration accelerates.

But, let’s not forget the inevitable.

Steve and Becky appear to be 50-year old hard-bodies who aggressively market their stupefying good looks and rippled torsos to sell their own version of a “new” exercise program.  Probably one that will have you looking good in less time and less effort- that seems to be a common theme for exercise programs these days.

They appeal because they sell the idea of delaying the inevitable.  Which is:  you and I are going to wrinkle up, droop and die.

I’m all for delaying the inevitable and looking as good as I can along the way.  And I’ve learned that diet and exercise are pivotal to both.  And that shortcuts and diets don’t work.

But at some point, one has to look beyond the physical and accept eyebags, turkey necks, high foreheads and hair in the wrong places as part of the divine plan, perhaps meant to remind us that the inevitable is drawing closer.

So, for my wife and me, it’s pretty simple.  Accept the inevitable but do what we can to delay it, look and feel as good as we can along the way, and accept the sags, droops, and wrinkles as ultimately unavoidable.

Of course, there is the option to have multiple encounters with a scalpel – a thought that has crossed my mind some mornings as the bags under my eyes stare back at me in the mirror.  But now I’m taking pride in them because they don’t become that prominent without having been around a while.  And being around a while means you’ve got something to offer to someone, somewhere, sometime.

Truthfully, this formula for looking as good as you can and feeling better than most for your age is so incredibly simple – eat right and exercise.  But I’ll be the first to confess it’s incredibly difficult because of the habit changes that it entails.  Plus neither activity scores real high on the fun scale.

 

The famous fitness, exercise, and nutrition expert Jack LaLanne, who made it to 95, was once asked why he liked exercise so much.  His response:  “I’ve never liked it.  I just like the results.”

Like nearly everything we do in life, it gets down to choice.  We know what works and what hinders.  Yet we succumb to comfort and convenience and let our 35 trillion cells burn themselves out early and send us on to an early, saggy, droopy, stooped demise.

And then complain about what the mirror feeds back to us.

It can all get pretty comical, can’t it?